What I think of Love & Relationship

Would you rather be single and spend lonely, empty nights by yourself or be attached to someone who doesn't bring out the best in you and only provides you with momentary happiness? To be honest, I would choose the latter anytime because it sucks to be alone. It sucks to not have somebody constantly on our mind, hoping that we are on theirs at the same time and it sucks to be siting around, wondering when is the "right" one going to appear.

But really? Is that what we really want? Maybe... If we're just searching for a short term relationship or simply a companionship, I'd say go ahead... But of course that is if you are game enough for the little heartaches & wee-hours-sadness that might tag along. Else I think we should just leave when unhappy. 

Seriously, what is more important than being happy in a relationship? & don't get me wrong, by that, I mean the happiness of our partner. I used to believe in trying so damn hard to please our partner & hope that they will be happy, that they will not leave us. But at some point of my life, I realised that this is all wrong. We shouldn't have to try so hard, in fact, we shouldn't even be trying because they should be happy when we are happy, just like how I'm happy when "she" is. That is what love is about. To me at least...

The woman (or man) that we love should not have to change a great deal just to please us. Yes, changes are inevitable. Actually I'd call it compromise rather than change. But if you find yourself compromising so much to a point that you feel like you're losing yourself and yet, happiness seems to come knocking a little too less often, then I think it's time to leave. Because we all know that history is just going to keep repeating itself, over & over & over again...

Just my 2 cent worth. I'm a noob when it comes to relationship or love issue. But one thing I'm 100% sure of is that the girl I love does not have to do a thing to please me. All she has to do is be happy, & I'll definitely be much more happier than she is. Regarding her source of happiness, it'll still come down to me because a man got to do what a man got to do, right? Ahahaha... Peace.