"Wanting to spend time with your partner is wonderful. If you didn't want
to spend time with them, there would be a problem with your
relationship. But, a relationship isn't exciting when you don't have new
things to share with your partner. When you spend time apart, you are
able to come home and tell your partner about your day. But, when you
spend every moment together, you have nothing new to share with each
other. You may also notice that the joy of spending every moment with
each will begin to wear thin. This is because each partner will enjoy
different things. Yes, you will have common interests, or you wouldn't
be together. But, women may want to watch chick flicks, while men want
to restore and old car. The time you spend apart will be rewarding. But,
if you don't spend time apart, you could ruin what you have. To put
things simply, you have to be able to have fun on your own before you
can begin to enjoy having fun with someone else. Depending on someone
else for your happiness is not healthy.
Okay, now that I've explained some of the downsides of spending too much
time together, let's move on to what you can gain from spending time
apart. First of all, spending time apart allows you to never take your
partner for granted. When you spend time apart, you have time to
actually miss your partner. Even if you just work at different jobs, it
will be rewarding for your relationship. When you get home at the end of
the day, you will have so much to share with each other. There is an
old saying, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." When you spend time
apart, you ache for your partner. You long for the next moment that
you'll be together. This is something that can only be achieved through
spending time apart."
- Amy Brantley
Going to school, attending lessons together, hang out with same group of friends, seeing each other at least 5 days a week, doing every shit together... No wonder... Feels kind of pity & unfair, but... Oh well... Wish I can turn back the hands of time... Haha... Guess her next one might just turn out pretty well (,:
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